I have recently seen too much of these false promises that people use to make others feel good. We need to get over ourselves and start loving each other how the Lord intended. The schedule is erratic at best. Heavenly Father will give you guidance if you listen with an open heart and contrite spirit as always. Sometimes I seat and think how we can make this work when both of us have career aspirations I am trying to find a tenure-track position close to my husband this year, and I just keep my fingers crossed that I can do that. That question really put things into perspective for me, so thank you. If you do believe it fully, are you not really going to want him to make the conversion ultimately.
I don't think it's going overboard, though, to state one very possible and very likely scenario, and that is that this girl may likely be completely indoctrinated and believing. I look back the 13 years with such sadness and loneliness; I was extremely busy and had no time for myself or others. If you want to date a Mormon guy or girl, then the best way to meet singles is by visiting the Church.
It will be nice to have time to do things for myself. He gave me a very clear answer that this was right. Ultimately we broke up. It's gonna hurt, and it's gonna break her heart, but much less so than waiting until you've both committed to each other and start discussing your future together. Part of the reason I created it is because my friends find it hard to understand. They might be disappointed, or overjoyed, or judgmental, or supportive. I had no idea how hard it could get. Log into your account. I say to you, decisions determine destiny.
I always feel like I am last. Be open and talk about your ideals. Even with the demands on his time, the man took the time and made the effort to post a profile on a dating site. Anonymous, you are right. Tough to say what will impact your girl most - but there's your best LDS. It can burn, and it can burn you hardcore. I'm glad you both have found a way to get past the incredible forces that are working against you. Sorry if I gave that impression.
