She is showing a common attitude of distrust for "anti-mormon" material. I love him so much, but it's torture spending so much time without him. Use of this site constitutes acceptance of our User Agreement and Privacy Policy. Sorry, you can't reply to this topic. The odds are definitely not in OPs favor for something like this working for him. He can't just put his shoes on and go. I had to tell her to stop communicating with my husband she was fired but he had urged her to "keep in touch!!. He sees all families being able to stay together. In the long run, being married to a nonmember has made me a better person. Like you I grew up with and taught the standard LDS beliefs about temple marriage, celestial kingdom, etc.
He has no vices, is the happiest person I know, is a healthy role model of manhood for my teen daughter and loves me to the depth of his soul. Im sooooo happy i've found this blog!!. The church is very important to her. You should want to keep things new and interesting, as you would in any relationship, while still allowing your date to maintain the standards of her faith. And you must be honest in your conversation with God about it. A grandpa sense of humor and occasional clever line from an old movie go a long way. Then you might want to talk about all the things her church requires. I would like to compliment the brave ladies for being the strong spouse and keeping the marriage moving forward.
In fact, you likely will meet a few. His hospital "family" protected this information well, silently acquiescing and even approving his behavior. One of the most well known church prophets stated that he would rather see his own child dead in their coffin than married outside the temple. As our relationship has progressed, this vague hypothetical question has led to some much more concrete thinking about what an interfaith marriage would be like for me, for him, and for us. I would find it therapeutic to type out all of my feelings and at the same time he would get an update. It takes a special person to be a doctor's spouse. I agree with what you and so many of the other replies have said: Listen with an open heart and curiosity. And her husband now is dead and she is left to wonder about their future. We try to make this place a little better than we found it. I got married to for love and companionship, not to essentially be lonely with a lot of nice things and raise my children "as if" I were a single parent.
I would find it therapeutic to type out all of my feelings and at the same time he would get an update. The importance of tithing your money. Marriage is unbelievably amazing and indescribably painful; I have been at it for 28 years with my soul mate. My husband is midway throug his first year of cardiology fellowship and we have been having a tough time lately. I feel for you.