I can see how it would be easy to think wow, I'm not even worth 3 minutes of conversation and I don't want you to feel that way. But no one can move on to one of the 3 Kingdoms until they accept Christ and totally repent. No doubt that some will be valiant up on the other side of the veil, but just as sure there will others who will reject salvation because of their high mindedness.
Anyway, before you marry you should work out anything hypothetical that might come up in the future. But what does it really mean to be a patriarch, to lead your tribe. He was funny, family-oriented, obviously very smart, etc. This always seemed terribly wrong to me. If things get even more serious, try getting her to sign a pre-nup that neither she, nor her family will try to convert you. If they believe their religion, they will ultimately cause you pain and disappointment. Some day he hopes to make it to Romania and settle down. Like any woman I am a Medical Assistant I sometimes question myself and ask myself what I would do if "unfaithfulness" came across.
Like many of you ladies I also feel like I'm getting the scraps of his time. I don't think people really understand how lonely it can get, unless you are married to one. The day could come where she has to decide between her relationship with you and her church. He could never tolerate my work schedule, so I became a stay at home mom. Anyways, after I was temporarily "crazy" during my masters degree studies, my husband and I began reading the book: I think we had been too busy to invest in our relationship, and in the book were reminded of how much we needed to work for our relationship.
I think that if these two really care about each other that she should be told to take a moment and ask herself how she would feel if they break up over this and years later she finally researches her religion. That would only encourage her to give up other standards that really are serious and to become like the typical Western degenerate. And those women are very replaceable to them. Do you know anyone working in medicine or in the healthcare field. It's easy to be blind to deal-breaking faults when you are young and in love.
