So I am at my dating prime. Leave her so you can both find people that youre more suited for. If you marry her, you're marrying into a cult, a mild cult as far as cults go, but a cult nonetheless. If you are willing to understand and accept these, whether or not you are a Mormon, you can have a fun time dating Mormon girls. Since a very young age, these girls have gazed at handsome paintings of Jesus and prophets, and learned to respect men who have spiritual confidence in their eyes. A lot of people are religious. Some people really can't wait, others can, and there is nothing wrong with either of those. I also didn't want to push him away by overwhelming him with talks about commitment when he's already stressed. Take what you read with a grain of salt. There are other ways.
I definitely don't want to lead her on. He's a big boy and can make up his own mind. How am I certain. As a man who married a non-Mormon woman, my story has a slightly different view point, but it comes down to essentially the same principles. Now the Pew survey only took into account self-identification, i. Every new set in our ward looks at him as fresh meat.
There have been times in my marriage where I have been frustrated and angry by his lack of change. But she probably is more in love with the idea of you, than with you. Do you drink alcohol. I've been married over 4 years to a 1st year GI fellow. I am so happy to have found this blog. All the shopping, cleaning, cooking, laundry, social planning, trips, any children that we may have and work full time too?. She encourages me to develop my skills and talents, and provides an example in several of those areas. It's called selfishness and inability to set priorities. You should both sit down and have a serious conversation about what you want and what she wants and if you can both deal with the compromise. I am fortunate to be married to a surgeon who, although he has "the ego," he maintains Christian values in our home.
Would I like to have him by my side. Discover the joys of a non-sexual relationship and find sincere ways to show affection without sex. I think the only thing that can possibly be worse is if he was working in a different country. Having said that I'm not looking to get married any time soon, so no. I appreciate all the replies explaining the extent of the aggravation and pain I likely will face. Hell we haven't even gone in a date yet. I was going to be having leftovers of everything; time, energy, etc.