The pressure is mounting for Mormon women to cave in to Western degeneracy, and men are at a loss for what to do about it. I have given up my career to stay with the kids and lonely is most cetainly my new reality. Because I have a husband that is not a member I have a quasi like status in the ward. Every bishop, new set of missionaries, home teacher, etc. Lonliness is hard no matter the reason for it.
Mormon's view marriages outside the temple to be counterfeit and you can't get into the temple without converting to the religion. It's just not worth it to constantly be stressing over this and feeling dissatisfied with the way things are after we've been dating for this long. You really don't know how great you have it. This is legitimately how it is for most dudes in Mormondumb. If it is a good honest relationship with two well-meaning people, you need to put work into it. We planned the funeral around his work and call schedule. Two people can be as completely different as it is possible to be and respect each others' beliefs. That said, Mormons have learned to have fun without alcohol and often have to wait until drinkers are well-oiled and loosened up to join in the dopey-ness.
Is this a sign of my own weakness. It's gonna end regardless not trying to be a dick, but that is what is going to happen eventuallyso be smart and cut your losses before it gets harder. This is right for me and for us.
I wouldn't end a relationship with her, just as I wouldn't deny someone a job, or refuse to socialize with someone who is a Mormon. I have heard for ten years that my spouse is "second fiddle. They will teach the boys that masturbation is evil, which will cause most boys to lie about it and feel deep shame and guilt. Unless you convert she won't marry you, plain and simple.